1. 22:54 21st Oct 2014

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    Anonymous said: What are the signs of emotional abuse?

    earthtoroxy:

    pandemiclaughter:

    monkeyfrog:

    fegeleh:

    the-goddamazon:

    mental-health-advice:

    Abusive Expectations - Makes impossible demands, requires constant attention, and constantly criticizes.

    Aggressing - Name calling, accusing, blames, threatens or gives orders, and often disguised as a judgmental “I know best” or “helping” attitude.

    Constant Chaos - Deliberately starts arguments with you or others. May treat you well in front of others, but changes when you’re alone.

    Rejecting - Refusing to acknowledge a person’s value, worth or presence. Communicating that he or she is useless or inferior or devaluing his or her thoughts and feelings.

    Denying - Denies personal needs (especially when need is greatest) with the intent of causing hurt or as punishment. Uses silent treatment as punishment. Denies certain events happened or things that were said. Denies your perceptions, memory and sanity by disallowing any viewpoints other than their own which causes self-doubt, confusion, and loss of self-esteem.

    Degrading - Any behavior that diminishes the identity, worth or dignity of the person such as: name-calling, mocking, teasing, insulting, ridiculing,

    Emotional Blackmail - Uses guilt, compassion, or fear to get what he or she wants.

    Terrorizing - Inducing intense fear or terror in a person, by threats or coercion.

    Invalidation - Attempts to distort your perception of the world by refusing to acknowledge your personal reality. Says that your emotions and perceptions aren’t real and shouldn’t be trusted.

    Isolating - Reducing or restricting freedom and normal contact with others.

    Corrupting - Convincing a person to accept and engage in illegal activities.

    Exploiting - Using a person for advantage or profit.

    Minimizing - A less extreme form of denial that trivializes something you’ve expressed as unimportant or inconsequential.

    Unpredictable Responses - Gets angry and upset in a situation that would normally not warrant a response. You walk around on eggshells to avoid any unnecessary drama over innocent comments you make. Drastic mood swings and outbursts.

    Gaslighting -A form of psychological abuse involving the manipulation of situations or events that cause a person to be confused or to doubt his perceptions and memories. Gaslighting causes victims to constantly second-guess themselves and wonder if they’re losing their minds.

    Love, Salem

    The last one is a killer and very important.

    this is extremely important tw #abuse

    Always reblob.

    No longer walking on eggshells and being able to be completely me has been an amazing transition in my life.

    recognize the signs

    gaslighting pisses me the fuck off

     
  2. 22:53

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  3. 22:52

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    mysoulhasgrowndeep-liketherivers:

dynastylnoire:

thepoliticalfreakshow:

Things Are About To Go To Hell Again in Ferguson: Working to confirm the information above. When I get confirmation, I will give it. No matter what, please stay safe in Ferguson this week, especially tomorrow. [Source]

OMG

why the fuck

    mysoulhasgrowndeep-liketherivers:

    dynastylnoire:

    thepoliticalfreakshow:

    Things Are About To Go To Hell Again in Ferguson: Working to confirm the information above. When I get confirmation, I will give it. No matter what, please stay safe in Ferguson this week, especially tomorrow. [Source]

    OMG

    why the fuck

     
  4. 22:42

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    yyuks:

w0l0w1zard:

fitandhealthyforlifee:

friendlyneighborhoodcurmudgeon:

Two MSU basketball players raped a woman in the dorms then one admitted to it. Their only consequence was that they had to move out of the dorms. This picture is of me and one other woman holding up this banner during Midnight Madness. Two other brave souls had a banner on the other side for a while before some jerk started playing tug or war with them over it. This was taken before we got booed at by 10,000 people and police escorted from the stadium. 

How screwed up are people to boo at this? 

Let’s keep reposting this. Rapists should be charged.

how is sport more important than the lives of women? like honestly baffling

    yyuks:

    w0l0w1zard:

    fitandhealthyforlifee:

    friendlyneighborhoodcurmudgeon:

    Two MSU basketball players raped a woman in the dorms then one admitted to it. Their only consequence was that they had to move out of the dorms. This picture is of me and one other woman holding up this banner during Midnight Madness. Two other brave souls had a banner on the other side for a while before some jerk started playing tug or war with them over it. This was taken before we got booed at by 10,000 people and police escorted from the stadium. 

    How screwed up are people to boo at this? 

    Let’s keep reposting this. Rapists should be charged.

    how is sport more important than the lives of women?
    like honestly baffling

    (Source: goforthandagitate)

     
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    unamusedsloth:

"We should eat whatever those things are." [via]

    unamusedsloth:

    "We should eat whatever those things are." [via]

     
  7. 22:39

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    brendanwtf:

circlebutt:

helpihavedementia:

brogigayo:

ticktaec:

tyleroakley:

My body is ready.

I know it’s mashed potatoes and gravy but is it bad that I thought it was ice cream and caramel?

 …it is ice cream and caramel
why would anyone put mashed potatoes and gravy in an apple

fucking what



Y’all bullied someone straight off tumblr bc of mashed potatoes lmao

    brendanwtf:

    circlebutt:

    helpihavedementia:

    brogigayo:

    ticktaec:

    tyleroakley:

    My body is ready.

    I know it’s mashed potatoes and gravy but is it bad that I thought it was ice cream and caramel?

     …it is ice cream and caramel

    why would anyone put mashed potatoes and gravy in an apple

    fucking what

    image

    Y’all bullied someone straight off tumblr bc of mashed potatoes lmao

    (Source: skrink-la-da-doo)

     
  8. 22:38

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    youthinkyourejohnlocke:

Snoop’s sick

    youthinkyourejohnlocke:

    Snoop’s sick

    (Source: guccimaneuver)

     
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    shutthefuckupcas:

    shutthefuckupcas:

    shutthefuckupcas:

    My dad accidentally threw a cheese grater at me so I left the room and he yelled “come back here you ungrateful child” while laughing hysterically

    Update my mom just told me that if I had even a ‘shred’ of decency I would go back in there

    Update #2: my dad apologized and told me he had only done it for ‘the grater good’

     
  13. 17:58

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    andrewbreitel:

    lggyzalea:

    when you’re out with your friends and someone really hot walks by 

    image

    me

    (Source: mandyidk)

     
  14. 17:57

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    oroxine:

    poyzn:

    There is someone out there for everybody.

    It just might be a goose.

     
  15. 17:57

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    toastoat:

what a powerful cat

    toastoat:

    what a powerful cat

    (Source: awwww-cute)